A woman who has albinism says strangers tell her she is too bright for their eyes due to her rare condition.
Kayla Ludlow, 20, from Washington, US, was born with oculocutaneous albinism – which characteristically leaves her with extremely pale skin, lilac-coloured eyes and white hair.
The student is legally blind due to her condition leaving her unable to drive and is forced to shun direct sunlight.
Despite “not being bothered” and with a supportive network around her, Kayla says she often gets rude comments from strangers and trolls online – which she takes in her stride.
“I have gotten a few negative reactions from people that say I stand out too much, or am too bright for their eyes when I stand in the sun, which I think is hilarious,” Kayla told NeedToKnow.Online.
“The only reactions I get that do irritate me a bit is when people tell me that I am lying or wrong, whether it is about my hair, or my eyes, my condition, or my ethnicity.
“People often ask if I am wearing contacts because my eyes are such an unnatural colour, or online most assume it’s a filter.
“My dating life hasn’t been severely impacted because of my condition, honestly most people say they don’t notice at all.
“I definitely do not appreciate when people claim to know more about me or my condition than I do.
“The main reaction that I get on TikTok is curiosity.
“People have so many questions, and that gets me so excited because I love to answer them.
“There are a few negative comments, or people that just won’t believe me, or make fun of my appearance, but on the internet there will always be those people, and it doesn’t bug me too much.
“My biggest goal is to educate and build confidence around Albinism, as generally, most of the world seem to put [us] in this ‘box.’
“We are seemingly so ‘different’ to everyone else, as if we are another species – it’s such a foreign concept to most.”
Kayla was born with the rare pigmentation which affects one in 20,000 worldwide.*
Despite being unique, she says she has always been comfortable with it, thanks to her mum and school teachers.
She said: “I’ve had so many experiences and developed so many qualities that I wouldn’t have if I didn’t have to struggle with the effects that it causes.
“Even from a young age, it never really bothered me.
“My mum taught me about my condition, taught me that it was okay have this condition, and taught me that I should embrace the condition and help others understand about it.
“So that’s what I chose to do.
“Each year in elementary school, I would read the class a book about different eye conditions, and help normalize it, and disability in general.
“In middle school and high school, I would have a meeting with all of my teachers before the first day of school to give them a little presentation about myself.
“I have a pretty positive relationship with my condition, and I’m comfortable talking about it.
“Some people are really bothered because they hate all the attention that they get for being so white, having uniquely coloured eyes, and standing out so much from the crowd, but I see it as a cool opportunity to meet new people and have conversations.
“I want to begin to clear those misconceptions and spread awareness in a positive light.
“I would love to see promoted stories about [the condition] to be in an empowering narrative, rather than something to pity.
“[However] I think it is important for others to see what some people say to people with my condition: the good, and the bad.”
While she hasn’t let the condition hold her back in life, there have been a few obstacles – but she has conquered these with her positive mindset.
Kayla added: “I can’t drive so I have to rely on my friends but I do pay them gas.
“I also really struggle going out in the sun. My skin and eyes can’t handle it very well.
“Because of the lack of pigmentation, light is so bright for me that I can’t even open my eyes when I step outside, and as for my skin, I am very susceptible to skin cancer so I need to be careful.
“Even though the skin condition and lack of vision is difficult, it opens up a lot of opportunities, programs, and people that I wouldn’t have had the chance to go to and meet if not for Albinism, so that is a positive as well.
“Albinism can be a really major struggle for a lot of people, especially in other countries that aren’t as accepting as the United States.
“In some countries of Africa, people with albinism are still hunted for their body parts which are said to be magical.
“It’s extremely dangerous to live in these parts of the world with this condition.”
She shares her experiences on TikTok (@kayla_lud), where she educates social media users on the condition.
One social media user said: “Wow, you are very beautiful!!! I learned something new today.”
A second person added: “That’s interesting. Love the purple eyes. I would never have thought you had that. I would have assumed purple contacts.”
Someone else wrote: “God has designed you perfectly. I’ve never new eyes could look that color and it’s freakin amazing! [sic].”
“You’re just so beautiful. I love every bit of your look,” added a fourth TikTok user.
A fifth person said: “That’s so unique I love it!”
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