A cheating expert has shared the top signs that your other half might be ‘Coldplaying’ you.
The phrase refers to the recent incident of former Astronomer CEO Andy Byron, who is married to Megan Kerrigan, caught on a kiss cam with Kristin Cabot, who is the company’s head of HR.
The duo are currently dealing with the consequences of their actions – with Byron resigning from his position just days ago.
If what happened has sparked concerns for your own relationship, don’t fret.
Elizabeth Romanova is here to share her expertise so that you can avoid seeing your partner snog someone else at a live concert.
RED FLAG 1: HE CHANGES OUTFITS OR CARRIES A BAG WITH AN EXTRA SET OF CLOTHES FOR NO APPARENT REASON
“The signs are there – a wedding ring is somewhat obvious, but some are more subtle,” the pro escort, who is based in Northamptonshire, told Need To Know.
“One thing that I notice when [men] have someone [a wife or girlfriend] at home is that they will always bring a change of clothes.
“Some [of them] show up wearing one outfit – then change into something for our time together, then switch back before they leave to avoid anyone smelling my perfume or any other traces of our meeting.”
RED FLAG 2: HIS SCHEDULE CHANGES VERY ‘LAST MINUTE’
Elizabeth said: “Sudden schedule shifts tend to be a telling sign, too.
“[The cheaters] have told a partner they’re at ‘work drinks’ or ‘last-minute meetings’.
RED FLAG 3: LOOK OUT FOR ANY MARKS ON THEIR BODY – BUT BE AWARE, CHEATERS ARE CLEVER
Elizabeth said: “If they keep making sure I don’t leave any marks, even on covered parts of their body – little details like that usually mean someone’s waiting for them at home.”
RED FLAG 4: HE’S GOT NEW MOVES IN THE BEDROOM
Elizabeth said: “A lot of clients are emotionally checked out from their relationships, and that’s why they come to see me.
“If your partner is pulling away emotionally, that could be why.
“[But] some people go the other way and become more excited for sex with their partner [after meeting an escort].
“They become suddenly more adventurous, trying out things they’ve picked up elsewhere.
“A sudden change in bedroom behaviour can go either way.”
RED FLAG 5: NEW PHONE PASSCODE
She said: “If someone suddenly changes their passcode, starts taking calls in another room, or guards their phone, this could be a sign that they’re more than just ‘busy’.
“They often reiterate in our communication that they don’t want to be contacted at certain times, or they forget the time of our meeting because they’ve deleted the messages from their phone.”
Elizabeth is both a webcam model and escort, and uses the site Vivastreet to advertise her services.
She added: “I’m not here to judge. Everyone comes [to an escort] for their own reasons, and that’s none of my business.
“I’ve always found the art of seduction and companionship fascinating, so it was a natural career path.
“I don’t see myself doing anything else – I love it.”
