A model in her 40s reveals how she divorced her first husband to marry a toyboy fan who is 13 years younger – and says her sex life is now “on fire”.
Nita Marie is a mum-of-two and staunch Christian who says God takes no issue with her steamy activities in the bedroom, nor her raunchy career, which reportedly earns her up to £95,000 a month.
The 48-year-old went through a divorce seven years ago but has since met and wed a new love.
To preserve his privacy, Nita won’t reveal her new hubby’s name but says dating someone so much younger has been an “eye-opening” experience.
Particularly the couple’s sex life.
“We met when I was ‘finding myself’ again,” said Nita, originally from Colorado, US, who boasts one million followers on Instagram (@love_nitamarie).
“I keep having to remember he is 13 years younger than me, as he does sometimes act a tad immature.
“Because he’s younger, I often take on a more dominant character – both in and outside the bedroom.
“Mostly, this dynamic is a good thing, but sometimes – not so much.
“He often asks for permission to do things or thinks he’ll get in trouble when he does something he’s not supposed to.
“But none of that matters when we’re in the bedroom.
“As a woman in my 40s, being with a man who is happy to explore in the bedroom is amazing.
“We do role play scenarios, which has been a huge turn-on for both of us and has elevated our sex life.
“He also loves ‘catching’ me naked in the shower and hopping in with me.”
Nita met her second husband after divorcing her first husband in February 2017, with whom she shares twin girls, aged 12.
As a newly-divorced woman, she set out to try new activities that she’d not dared to do in the past – such as dating men in their 20s and 30s, as well as returning to modelling – but this time, with her clothes off.
But the mum still wanted to find a life partner.
She met her latest husband through Facebook; in one of the groups dedicated to the model, fans would often leave loving messages and comments.
Her future partner’s “nice and sweet” comments stood out and caught Nita’s eye.
She said: “He was very mature [for his age] and I could tell that he was used to handling responsibility.
“I tend to go for more blue-collar, hard-working men that are down to earth; which he is.
“He communicated with me on my level and already had a lot of life experience.
“I reached out and asked for him to help me with an online project and he did it without asking for anything in return, unlike most guys.
“I knew then that I liked him and after our first phone call it was a sure thing that we wanted to be together.”
From the pair’s first phone call, Nita knew she’d found her soulmate – with the pair making things official just a month after meeting for the first time.
In 2021, they tied the knot.
Despite still needing to remind herself that he isn’t as mature as someone her age or older, the couple are completely loved-up.
She added: “He keeps the youthful fun in me with his playful energy.
“I do more active things than I would do with someone my age or older – such as hiking, playing pool and going out with friends.
“He’s super loyal and not a player in the slightest, which is one of the reasons I was mostly attracted to him.
“My husband takes care of our animal sanctuary, the girls and household things.
“The twins love him and treat him as if he were an older brother sometimes.
“At first, people were a bit nervous about our relationship but he’s very good to me, treats me well and we compliment each other.
“All our magical moments outweigh any challenges – and I know he’s only got eyes for me.”
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