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Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
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‘Men are intimated by my bulging muscles – dating is hard’

Katie Dollard
Last updated: January 31, 2025 9:09 am
Katie Dollard Published January 31, 2025
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Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)
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A ripped model claims men are scared off by her bulging muscles.

Influencer Kerolay Chaves, who has a staggering 5.8 million Instagram followers, has hit headlines in the past for her big bottom.

She has even said her curvy figure once got her kicked out of a supermarket.

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But the 23-year-old’s newest issue is centred around men who she claims are intimidated by her strength.

“Men say my muscles are too big and it scares them,” Kerolay told Need To Know.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

“They immediately ask how I achieved it as if being feminine and strong at the same time is impossible.

“Some are clearly fascinated, while others don’t quite know how to react.

“But it doesn’t bother me.

“I love being a big, beautiful woman.”

Kerolay stands at 5ft 2 inches tall and has 50-inch hips.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

She said: “I’ve noticed some judgmental stares, especially in places where the ‘standard’ body type is still highly valued, like certain gyms or more ‘elitist’ parties.

“It feels like I stand out in a way that makes people uncomfortable.

“Those moments can be awkward, but they also remind me that my body makes an impact and that’s a positive thing.”

However, the influencer admits that sometimes the comments and stares make her feel “uneasy”.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

She said: “Especially when they come with that undertone of, ‘Why don’t you aim for a more ‘delicate’ look?

“But ultimately, the looks and remarks make me realize that my body doesn’t go unnoticed.

“That motivates me even more to stay true to myself without conforming to any standard.

“I have an impressive combination of curves and muscles – the result of a rigorous workout routine and personal care.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

“To me, strength and femininity go hand in hand, and no one has the right to tell me what I can or cannot be.”

The model, from Brazil, has also had to deal with the practical challenges that come with her body.

She said: “I have difficulties finding clothes that fit my body and discomfort with airplane seats, which I see as a form of structural body shaming.”

When it comes to dating, she hopes to find someone supportive of her shape.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

She said: “Dating is not always easy.

“My body can intimidate some men who feel insecure or think they need to compete with me.

“But then there are those who are completely captivated and genuinely respect what I’ve built.

“For me, a relationship should be light and based on mutual admiration – and that includes accepting my body for what it is, with all its strength and sensuality.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

“My future partner doesn’t need to work out but it’s important that they live an active lifestyle and take care of themselves.

“They don’t need to have the same level of dedication as I do but they should understand the importance of feeling good in their own skin.”

The 23-year-old said a man once commented on her muscles on her date.

She said: “The guy said my arms looked ‘too strong’ for a woman.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

“He didn’t say it in a mean way but you could sense his discomfort.

“I just joked, ‘Well, at least you’ll never have to protect me!’

“We laughed and the date carried on, but it was clear it was an issue for him.

“In the end, there wasn’t enough chemistry for it to go any further.

Ripped model Kerolay Chaves says men are intimidated by her muscles, but she embraces her strength and femininity. Here's how she stays confident despite the stares.
Kerolay Chaves. (Jam Press/CO Press Office/@kerolay_chaves)

“I love what I see in the mirror.

“My body is the result of hard work and dedication.

“I want other women to know there’s nothing wrong with breaking away from society’s standards.

“It’s important to love who you are and live without fear of judgment.”

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